Over the last two years, I have lost people that I particularly loved, especially my father who died about two months ago from leukemia. I have never faced death as much as I have in the last two years. I am now in the process of grieving which is a difficult time to live through but it is a moment which is part of life from which we emerge stronger. Here are some tips to give to get through this difficult time.

  1. Allow Yourself to Feel: It’s important to acknowledge and accept your feelings. Allow yourself to feel the pain, sadness, anger, or any other emotions that may arise. Suppressing emotions can prolong the healing process.
  2. Give Yourself Time: Grieving is a process that takes time. Be patient with yourself and recognize that healing doesn’t happen overnight. Allow yourself the time you need to cope with the loss.
  3. Seek Support: Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends, family, or a support group. Sharing your feelings with others can provide comfort and help you feel less isolated.
  4. Express Your Emotions: Find healthy ways to express your emotions. This could include talking to someone you trust, writing in a journal, creating art, or participating in activities that help you release pent-up emotions.
  5. Take Care of Your Physical Health: Grieving can take a toll on your physical well-being. Ensure that you are eating well, getting enough sleep, and engaging in regular exercise. Physical health can impact your emotional well-being.
  6. Create Rituals and Memorials: Establishing rituals or creating memorials can be a meaningful way to remember and honor the person you’ve lost. This might involve creating a scrapbook, planting a tree, or participating in a memorial event.
  7. Consider Professional Help: If you find it challenging to cope with your grief, seeking the help of a mental health professional, such as a counselor or therapist, can provide valuable support and guidance.
  8. Be Kind to Yourself: Grieving is a process of self-compassion. Avoid self-judgment and understand that everyone grieves differently. Allow yourself the space to grieve in your own way.
  9. Maintain Routine: While it’s essential to give yourself the flexibility to grieve, maintaining some routine in your daily life can provide a sense of stability and normalcy during a challenging time.
  10. Celebrate the Positive Memories: Instead of focusing solely on the loss, try to celebrate the positive memories and experiences you shared with the person you’ve lost. This can help shift the focus from the pain of the loss to the joy of the connection.

Remember that grieving is a unique and individual experience, and there is no right or wrong way to go through it.

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  1. Maya Avatar

    I’m so sorry for you’re loss. I hope you find happiness again! Wish you all the best. 💖

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    1. Gregory Vanlerberghe Avatar

      Thank you Maya, it’s really hard to find the time to grieve and go through the whole process.

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      1. Maya Avatar

        I may not be able to fully understand what you’re going through, but I want you to know that I’m here for you and I wish you all the best in life. May happiness always find its way to you! 🥰❤️

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      2. Gregory Vanlerberghe Avatar

        Thank you Maya, this is very sweet of you !!

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      3. Maya Avatar

        You’re welcome Gregory (I hope I got your name right) ❤️

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